
 He's not my 
real cousin but 
Tony Hoyt comes pretty close. After all, we've got the same last name. We're kinda around the same age. Our daughters -- 
Betsy Hoyt, pictured here with her daughters 
Sara Jane and 
Charlotte, and 
Ali, my daughter -- were married on exactly the same date. Plus, Tony and I had a pretty successful run together at 
Cosmopolitan . The Hoyt boys have stayed in touch, and become even better friends, as the years have gone by. As for Betsy and the girls: they celebrated Thanksgiving in Vermont with Cousin T. "The Other One" (that's me) was there in spirit!